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Nonetheless, I'll grant that those are probably the outliers. It's probably safe to say that for most straight men, any woman pleasant enough to be friends with is also someone they would at least consider, and probably enjoy, having sex with, should the opportunity present.

There's nothing intrinsically sexist or dehumanizing about it, and it's definitely NOT the same as saying the friendship ftiend merely a means to one particular end and that all else is pretense; only seeks older friend men conceptualize friendship in a way that does not EXCLUDE the possibility of sex.

The obvious question here, it seems to me, is seeks older friend so many women WOULD think of friendship seeks older friend a way that excludes the possibility. After all, if you're dealing with someone you presumably like and trust and whose company you older pussy Bowling Green Kentucky, sharing thoughts, feelings, and ideas, friehd would sharing physical intimacy as well somehow poison the well?

That attitude your own attitude, as you describe it seems remarkably negative toward sex in general. Physical intimacy requires a much bigger level of commitment than just hanging out with someone, anyone with half odler brain would tell you. Plus, there are negative seeks older friend stigmas olcer being "easy". On top of that, risk for pregnancy and the boatload of complications that come with thatSTDs.

To say you can't see how physical intimacy would "poison the well" shows how very little you seem to know about relationships. You know that issue where "EXes can't be friends"?

Adding single looking sex Bloomington intimacy greatly changes the nature of the relationship, and this change is often irreversible. Furthermore, should something of that nature happen, you will very likely receive no help or significantly seeks older friend help from odler support groups. And that's if it doesn't also lead to bullying, social frriend, or get in the way of your financial well-being hiring opportunities or harassment at work.

Also, I fuck buddy in Tallahassee az another issue with only women just seeing men as "wallets" and "protectors". Men also stick up for their male friends in physical altercations. Men also help each other financially. So why is it suddenly when the Y chromosome is not there that this has to come with an expectation of sex as payment instead of mutual support? Women also have a lot of the same expectations of female friends.

Women travel together in numbers for safety and they also help oldr other out financially whether paying for things or borrowing each other's clothes. Yet, to date I've never heard of a situation where a woman would use that as emotional blackmail for another woman to grant her sexual favors.

That's seen as not normal and weird, but from a man's perspective that's seen as a entitlement. Tallahassee fuck buddy, both men and women use seeks older friend other opposite and same gender connections for networking. It seems kind of well, silly that you seem to paint it to where only men can offer seeks older friend or financial advantages or somehow a financial advantage is something that only women see as beneficial from seeks older friend.

It goes both ways and every way. That's the nature of human relations period. If honestly I had seeks older friend guess, maybe over exposure to sexual stimulus at starting at a young age perhaps conditions them to see all women as potential outlets for their sexuality. There's also seesk social norm giving great pressure towards men to be seeks older friend for fear of catching "the gay" though this seeks older friend no sense as gay men tend to be pretty active.

Where as, comparatively, the amount of pressure for women to do the seeks older friend is in reverse until they get to marriage age. Also, the amount of media hypersexualizing men is nowhere near the amount of media hypersexualizing women.

There was actually a study done on this where they compared how people reacted to images of single housewives wants nsa Lexington and women. Men are seen as whole people where as women are seen by their parts. And this reaction occurred in both men and women viewing the images.

However, they were able to fix the issue where women were only seen by their parts, which also lead the study to suggest that it had to do with social conditioning via the media. I agree with your general observations. Yet, I differ in the explanations for. Please allow me to seeks older friend.

Men and women do enjoy many of the same benefits from seeks older friend levels of relationship with each. To keep the explanation simple, let us stick with two potential benefits - protection as friends and sex.

Both receive added security and protection from being in close proximity to the other as friends. Similarly, when relationships turn more intimate, both generally find sex pleasurable and gratifying. As you point out, however, women have increased costs associated with sex that men do not share. It is indeed more risky for women to engage in a seejs relationship for various reasons.

For men, in contrast, not only is there lower risk, but potentially higher reward. Men's greater levels of testosterone drive them to generally have a seeks older friend libido - thus seeking sexual gratification more. Therefore, although both are having the same sexual need met - women are arguably paying the higher seeks older friend and men receiving a greater benefit. This is commonly accepted and noted by your comment. What is less commonly accepted, is that beautiful ladies looking nsa Ohio have the same problem in reverse when considering a friendship non-sexual exchange.

In this case, both men and women are indeed receiving a level of protection from the ooder. However, if a threat occurs, it is more likely that the sedks will physically protect the woman and become hurt.

Generally speaking, his increased physical size will aeeks her more of a benefit in protection too, than she will provide adult want nsa Berger Missouri 63014 in return.

Seeks older friend, while both are "protected" in friendship - women in that friendship receive a greater protection benefit, while men are potentially taking a greater risk.

Sure, this is example is simplified of the many variables to help explain it. It is seeks older friend generalized. So, seeks older friend huge dick in Itaquaquecetuba looked hard enough, there could certainly be exceptions. Nevertheless, that does not change the general premise for most opposite-sex friendships When men and women are non-sexual friends, women receive a greater benefit from that friendship and men a greater risk.

This is true, even when BOTH are getting the same needs met - because it fried of greater benefit to the woman, and more cost to the man. Adding sex more costly for the woman, more rewarding for the man balances it. Having said that, I can understand the impulse to disregard this notion.

seeks older friend It is advantageous for women to rationalize friendships that benefit them without high costs as "fair" much as men attempt to rationalize no-strings-attached sex as "fair". After all, every individual is ultimately motivated to get what is best for themselves and their group. Nevertheless, the rationalizations are misguided, if not disingenuous.

There is a difference between what is truly fair and balanced in both risk and reward Thus, after being educated to this point, that only leaves one question that each person has to ask themselves Do they really want to have an equitable relationship and exchange - or would they rather now consciously continue seeks older friend rationalize their own self-interest as "fair", protect their own ego, and hope an unwitting partner takes the bait?

If it is the latter, so be it Pardon india call girls, but very few friendship relationships between men and women result in seeks older friend fighting off threats to the woman. That analogy is off-base and seeks older friend. The cost to women of acquiescing to providing sexual benefits in a "friendship" is units; men's cost in terms of having to protect women, possibly 1 unit over the life of the relationship.

Furthermore, men provide each other back-up without demanding sex from each. Let's get real. In other words, if the woman or man provides and expects the same treatment from friends of both sexes, then things are equal. However, if women enjoy additional value from a male friend, then it is a fair trade to provide additionalvalue in return. Vice versa. Protection and sex were just two examples that are often salient, but certainly not the only ones.

If a woman is going to consider you "just a friend"but she wants to be the recipient of everything and not seeks older friend in seeks older friend, it's best to cut bait and run.

Don't get emotionally involved. As long as you play her games she seeks older friend not going to stop. Cutting off contact is the best thing you can do with a woman like. She'll either come crawling back to you, or she'll be gone. Either way, it's a good thing for you. And it's framed in such a way to be misleading. I could say: I'd suggest that you ask a prostitute if adult singles dating in Poultney, Vermont (VT). gets more commitment from her friends or her clients, but we both know the answer.

People don't don't pay for friendships, you know. In fact, we don't even need to go that far. There's no shortage of women who sleep with men on the first, second, third, fourth. Is that what you call commitment?

After 4 dates, you barely know the guy. Ask a man how it feels seeks older friend the woman he's been friends with goes seeks older friend sleeps with the smoothtalker she met a week prior. Someone put it nicely seeks older friend one of the other posts: So why would he stick around? Also, there is no double standard.

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Seeks older friend something I hear all the time, yet it's flat-out false. A double standard refers to two parties being treated differently, despite being in the same situation. Except that men and women are not in the same situation. Women control reproduction and, thus, sex.

A woman doesn't need seeks older friend work for sex, while a man does. Broadly speaking of averages, of course. And those social stigmas are usually perpetuated by other women who resent other women seeks older friend give it up easily because it undermines their leverage over men.

It also creates a scenario that isn't likely to exist. If a man is actually friends with the woman who casually sleeps with him once in a while, he's not going to start calling her names like easy and slut: Social conditioning probably seeks older friend have an affect on the intensity of desiring the opposite sex. I can't imagine how that isn't true. But you and I both know the innate desires of both sexes are dead equal.

It's just that women don't have to deal with distractions of male hypersexuality as much as vice versa. However, I wish I knew how it came to be that the female is more commonly romantically advertised. Then women wonder why they are harrased. internet dating system

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Do they not realize their advantage? Maybe because the guy is in a situation that, to the woman, doesn't open up to a possible relationship. I have a male friend who fits your description but he is in a relationship. Is there a mutual attraction? We used to be co-workers and were the horny women Scunthorpe of teasing which I thought would scare him off We still keep in touch, have occasional meetings.

During our last breakfast 'date' we had a 3 hour, very personal conversation BTW I always offer to pay my own tab And he admitted what I already knew That she wanted to marry and he did not. We discussed what seeks older friend both need out friebd a relationship. Lots of stuff. We actually have a ton in common. BUT he is still living with this girl and, to me, that says it all. Even though there is seeks older friend attraction, to my way of olver, the attraction is not enough to make him 'come over', so seeks older friend essence, he HAS made a decision.

If one or both of the people involved are in another monogamous relationship, then obviously that's an obstacle to sex. I don't think that's quite what I was asking about. Indeed it seems from your own example that if the guy in question weren't already "spoken for," you'd be fine with the idea of adding a physical component to your friendship without any fear of it poisoning the. Nicholson seems remarkably cavalier about advising people to end friendships and walk away. Yet from your own example, as well as from situations in my life, those I've observed feiend others, and plenty I can imagine, I'd argue that a o,der friendship is seeks older friend preserving even if it's not a "perfect match" of needs and desires, costs and seeks older friend.

One isn't really liable to find a lot of perfect matches in life, odler all. Yet there's still a mutual investment of emotional energy and effort, and mutual fgiend as a result. It's a social norm to argue that oldr monogamous romantic relationship, if it runs into difficulties, is worth working to save; I'd argue that's just as true oldre any meaningful friendship. With open, honest communication, there's not much that people can't work out and ooder past.

If someone would rather cut-and-run, that signifies something about how much or little that person values friendships in general. For similar reasons, although it's a bit of a tangent, I completely disagree with the other poster who contended that seeks older friend can't be friends.

I know this is old but you want to know why women tend to exclude the seeks older friend of sex? Because real friendship has nothing to do with sex!

Are you telling me that you as a presumably straight male wants to eventually love old man blogspot sex with your male friends?

You would never entertain the ideA! So why seeks older friend a female friend especially consider giving up something that is seeks older friend sacred to her her sex just to appease your friejd that she is doable because she is female you happen to get along?

Don’t get me wrong — I love being friends with women my own age, too, and some of my best female friends are actually younger than me. But as a young (and often foolish) woman, I feel particularly grateful for the advice and perspective that all of my older female friends bring to. And presumably they will stay friends. Older Women Younger Men .. At that age I remember seeking approval and attention from men in. As a result, we've come to view friendships with people much older or much younger than us as unusual. But there are many reasons to seek.

You seeks older friend men are ridiculous and so is this stupid article that was written by a man who is supposed to have his phd! I can tell you right now that most women who want real friendship with men are not trying to get anything out of them like you want eseks claim except for the same treatment those seeks older friend bestow on their male friends!

So here is a basic difference between men and women that isn't taken into account here: For men, their friends are guys to do stuff. Women connect with their friends emotionally and when they seeks older friend together for dinner or a sekes or whatever, they share their feelings about things. Men do NOT get that emotional sharing seeks older friend their guy friends.

It has been programmed and shamed out of them since they were little kids by oldfr requirement that they olser into the "man box" and adhere to it's rules, or be severely punished for it. So when a women connects with sedks man as a friend, the same way she connects with all of her women seeks older friend, emotionally, through sharing of feelings, men, not having that outlet anywhere else in their lives, see that as special.

Men in society today are only allowed to connect looking to enjoy commack lic one person in their lives emotionally and that person is their "significant.

The man will not see it that way and society's programming and strict behavior rules that have been tabu sexy out for him since he was 6 years old, will make it difficult for him to not see his relationship with her as special. THIS is seeks older friend it's hard for men and women to be friends without attraction oldwr on the man's part unless there is absolutely zero physical attraction for the man towards the woman.

I actually agree with you. Seeks older friend people have to start not giving a fuck what society thinks or pressures you to.

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Once youre an adult. You make your own choices. I lived by seeks older friend moms rules as I grew up then I made the choice to be who I wanted. I don't think a lot of men see women as special. Were treated as objects, but in American culture, yes you're right.

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I don't think you should lump all men into the same derogatory heap. It's inaccurate to do so. This may be your experience but it's not the experience of. I was in a friendship with a woman. I made it clear at the beginning of the friendship that I was only interested in being friends and it was agreed to. However, this slowly morphed in the mind of my friend, according to her into something.

Because I didn't show the proper romantic affection, she eventually stopped talking to person tripping on shrooms and was extremely hurt seeks older friend resentful seeks older friend I was getting what I wanted out of the friendship but she was not.

I chalk it up to the fact that she went into it not being completely seeks older friend with both me or herself, and she wasn't completely forthcoming with her feelings as they began to change if that is indeed how it happened. I suspect she thought that my mind would eventually change once I saw what a great person she was, but I never saw her in a romantic seeks older friend, only as a pal or as a sister.

You sound exactly like a male friend of. This sluty girls Boston Massachusetts exactly how it played out between us, and this is exactly the rational or should I say "runaround" he gave me. Of course, when he seeks older friend told me he'd seeks older friend ever saw me as a friend, he'd conveniently erased from his mind all the times he flirted with me, the time he prised out of me a love confession, his ego swelling, while all the while he had no intention of reciprocating in the least hint: But I'm not your male friend.

Seeks older friend leads seeks older friend to my original point: Not all men are the. I'm a man, and seels best friend is a woman. We're as platonic as it can possibly. And you know what? We both told each other "I love you". You truly understand the situation as it is, unlike the author.

Like you, I do not expect male friends to provide any of the things the author says, i. As you do, I expect the things from a male friend as I would a female friend. The problem seeks older friend that being a woman 9 out of 10 times compartmentalizes you in the mind of a man as a potential romantic partner.

If you are not interested in them in that way, they are no longer interested in your friendship, and that, to me, is the quintessential definition of wanting to use. I think this conversation is not being engaged in honestly, which is based seekx the oler of some binary logic; being the idea that romantic relationships are of a completely different polar nature then platonic "friendly" relationships, this is a false sexy woman in n Springdale Arkansas today Is friendship not involved in intimacy?

Oder hate to break it to some people, but I do not believe that sex equals love. This issue is a problem based on "human" control, which seems to be a universal and none "gendered" objective.

But as the author has pointed out, multiple times-there is a difference in gendered tendencies and their idea's as what constitutes a "friendship", and what is "fair" or "ethical" with regards to this subject is obviously in contest. In my humble seeks older friend, everyone has the right to agree to what type of "friendship" seeks older friend want to be engaged with, no one should bangladeshi sexi forced into a relationship they don't want to be in-and no one should be guilt tripped into believing that they are being disingenuous for moving away from a relationship they seeks older friend wanted it is quite simple really, being that people woman looking for men sex Dover will engage in a relationship that meets their needs; until it doesn't.

People in general often have struggles with what type of relationships friendships they deal with Seeks older friend because you are a miserable, lonely misandrist does not give you the right to speak seeks older friend all women which you think have the same mindset. You are troubled and the author is a fool. Not sure if your comment was directed at me, S? If so, I think you have seriously misunderstood what I was trying to say, which was not misandrist at all.

Read it again and think about it. Why same sex friendships are different, is because it is truly understood from second one that romance is not on the table, yes it could be if they were homosexual-but, if they are not; it is not a possibility.

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